Sometimes you cannot find the right words to perfectly describe how you’re feeling after a breakup — that’s where songs come into play.
Music has a way of taking us on the journey we most need. It may begin with the songs that make you break out the wine and tissues and grieve the loss of this broken relationship. But then you’re going to need the songs that say goodbye to being a victim, and hello to feeling empowered.
Here are some songs to play when you’re getting over a heartbreak:
1. “Best Thing I Never Had” by Beyonce
This empowering song is perfect for when you’re truly ready to say goodbye to your ex. Beyoncé would never let a man do her wrong, and now, neither will you.
2. “Break Free” by Ariana Grande and Zedd
You’re breaking free from this toxic relationship and boy, does it feel good. Ariana Grande’s got you girl, along with a killer ponytail.
3. “Shake It Off” by Taylor Swift
Shake it off girl, along with all of those icky feelings about your ex. Haters gonna hate, and right now your ex is probably hating how wonderful your life is without him or her.
4. “Cry Me A River” by Justin Timberlake
You won’t be crying yourself a river after listening to this classic jam by Justin. If he could get over Britney Spears, you can get over your ex. And look at where Justin is now….
5. “Since U Been Gone” by Kelly Clarkson
Ah, Kelly Clarkson. She always seems to understand us. Let this song be your anthem when you want to get in touch with your powerful and “better off” side.
6. “Before He Cheats” by Carrie Underwood
Raise your hand if you have done karaoke to this song before. You should be a pro at singing this one by now. Feel your anger with Carrie as she slashes those tires. (But maybe don’t follow her advice.)
7. “Irreplaceable” by Beyonce
You’re irreplaceable and you should know it. Don’t let any man or woman tell you otherwise. And if he or she does, just say, “To the left, to the left.”
8. “Wrecking Ball” by Miley Cyrus
Your love came in like a wrecking ball and so did Miley Cyrus’s naked body. So basically, this song is a win/win.
9. “No Scrubs” by TLC
This threesome knew exactly what they were talking about with this classic hit. Sing along to this one and remind yourself of how you never want to deal with a scrub like that again. Also, should we bring back this term? Just a thought.