I am a mother of three darling young boys and how amazing they are, I carried them for nine months and gave birth naturally right around each of their due dates. I carried them each happily and wouldn’t change it for the world! The only thing I would change is my body! I want my young tight body back where everything is perky and happy just as it should be. Each time after giving birth to a child my boobs got more stretch marks and shrunk a cup size! With each child I literally lost a cup size, I was once a C cup and now am sadly an A cup. Of course they are stretched and saggy as nursing took its toll on them as well and seemingly my children sucked the life out of them quite literally.
I have the discussion about breast augmentation quiet often with my husband these days. First issue is the cost; it’s a big expenditure just to make my breasts bigger. The next issue is he says he is fine with me the way I am. He tells me to be confident and proud of my ‘little boobs.’ This makes me smile. I want to feel the way he says and I do try. His encouragement does give me a confidence boost. But I don’t want bigger breasts for other people to enjoy. I want them for me and my husband to enjoy! I want to feel like a woman and have the breasts I once had when I was younger. I don’t see anything wrong with that. I truly just want what I once had when I was younger. I sometimes feel like less of a woman because I have almost no breasts and I do not like what I see in the mirror.
To get the augmentation or not? Well, that will have to be agreed upon by my husband and I. At first he was on board, then he heard more about the procedure and cringed. He would rather not have me go through the process of surgery and healing. As long as my husband loves me the way I am I will be happy. But I also want to be happy about my body and what I see in the mirror. Bearing children changes a woman’s body, there’s no doubt about that but we wouldn’t change it for the world. Do what you have too, to love your body and love yourself. Then you will be able to love those children and husband even more!
Be a confident mom!
With Love,