You’ve been seeing this guy for quite some time now, but you still can’t figure out why he doesn’t make the move and make it ‘official’ between the two of you. Of course there’s no one way to decode a guy’s true intentions, but there are tell tale signs that maybe he’s not that into you.
He is Not Interested in Talking To You
When a guy is really into you, he listens to what you have to say. He likes to hear about how your day went, what happened at work, and random events in your life. He finds time to communicate with you and tell you about what’s been happening on his end. This does not mean that he has to call you or message you every now so often. It’s not about the frequency of his calls, but rather quality and content.
You can tell if he’s not really communicating well with you if he repeats the same stories over and over again. That only means he’s so disconnected that he can’t even pay attention to what he’s saying! Also, ask yourself if he’s talking to you like he does with the rest of his friends. If so, chances are, he’s not that into you.
He Does Not Share His Feelings to You
Men are naturally not as expressive as women – that’s a given. But when a man is interested in you, he feels like he can open up to you. He lets you in on his inner thoughts, feelings, and dreams. If a guy can be vulnerable in front of you, then he’s probably a keeper.
He Does Not Make Plans in Advance / Does Not Make Time For You
If a guy is into you, he would want to spend a lot of time with you if he can. You would be his top priority on his calendar! So when a guy can’t commit to dinner next weekend or a friend’s birthday party next month, it means he’s keeping his options open and his schedule free for other dates. Same goes for that guy who treats you as a booty call – the one that calls you up at midnight when he has nothing else to do or after a failed night out. Remember, you’re a priority and not an option.
He Doesn’t Introduce You to Friends or Family
This is applicable especially when you’ve been seeing each other for awhile now. It’s natural for a guy to take you out as his date together with his friends. If he doesn’t introduce you to his circle of friends or important persons in his life, there could be something wrong! The same is true when he doesn’t want to be seen as a couple when you’re out in public. He keeps a safe distance so that when you run into someone he knows, he can just introduce you as a ‘friend’ and nothing more.
He’s Friendly and Flirty With Everyone Else
Sure, he might make you feel special. But what if he treats every other girl the same way? Observe how he acts around other women and check if he’s flirting with them like the way he flirts with you. Or maybe he just has a sociable, outgoing personality. If his behavior with friends and other girls is no different than how he treats you, you probably mean nothing to him.
If you catch these signs, he’s probably not that into you. Don’t waste your time and move on!
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